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Where Has the Time Gone?

2/29/2020

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I was driving to a KonMari presentation that I was giving at a local library and on my way the GPS took me down a side street. As I was driving I noticed there was no one on the road at 8:30 AM. All of a sudden I found myself in front of this beautiful sunrise in Castle Pines, CO. When people say words cannot express the thing the are trying to express I understood what that meant in this moment. The photo doesn’t capture the magic of what I was looking at and I wish there was a way for you to push a button so you could feel exactly what I was feeling. The only word I can come up with that best describes what I was feeling is love. I sat by the side of this abandoned frontage road and wondered if the highway traffic to the right of me could see what I was seeing. What isn’t in the photo is the land spreading for miles and miles all around and the vastness of the clouds and suns rays mixed together. I could barely take it all in because there was so much to look at. I felt like I was standing in front of a painting. My mind felt at peace and it made me remember why I love nature so much. It also reminded me that I haven’t been out in nature in a very long time, too long.

My family and I just went through an entire home remodel and needless to say it was very difficult. We had very bad contractors which we had to fire and I then became the GC. Let’s just say I won’t be taking on any home remodeling projects anytime soon. Our home for the most part turned out the way we had envisioned but there are several areas that will just have to be sub par because we can’t afford to fix them. When I’m in the kitchen cooking or when I’m in the living room with my family watching a movie or when I’m at the dining table writing a blog and now all of those rooms are joined into one big room, I remember that growing pains are painful and I’m glad we took the leap. We now have a master suite and a bathroom with a separate soaking tub. I have an office with a skylight and several skylights in the main room and master bath (my favorite part are the skylights). We added a bedroom where the attached garage used to be and the new two-car garage is in the backyard. We have a mud room, a couple barn doors and hardwood floors throughout. In the backyard we now have a fire pit and all new concrete. The front yard is a work in progress but for now we have a brand new front door and black wrought iron railing. 

It still feels like it isn’t my house yet but we’ve been hanging artwork and adding our personal touches all throughout. I hired a Feng Shui consultant to help us greet our new home and position the furniture for the best flow of chi. I’m now having fun with my home and putting things away in their new spots feels really good. I hope by this time next year we will be completely healed of all the bumps and bruises and getting ready for Spring to see all the new flowers we will plant this coming year. I chose the blog title because while I was standing in front of this serene setting it reminded me that I hadn’t taken a pause to enjoy the little things in a very long time. I had been so wrapped up in the remodel and the chaos of 2019 that I had let myself neglect what I truly cherish which is being in the present moment. 
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Tidying...A Relationship with Yourself

1/31/2020

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Marie Kondo has a wonderful blog and there is one post in particular, "Finding Joy Within", I would like to share with you. She recently spoke with an award-winning clinical therapist and interpersonal architect Dr. Judith Coché. Dr. Coché says the most intimate relationship you can have with anyone in the world is the one you have with yourself. She also says that if there is an area in your life you don’t want to look at then that means you can absolutely deny it no longer. In fact, she says to put it under a microscope until you’ve cozied up to it and adjusted whatever needs adjusting. Basically make friends with your flaws or emotional pain. Also, speaking to yourself the way you would speak to a friend in need is the way we must speak to ourselves and this is vital. 

For myself, tidying has allowed me to live a more fluid and fruitful life. When I was younger the vision for myself was very unclear. I loved art and languages and honestly interior design was my favorite thing. At times I would stay up all night thinking about how to redesign my room with furniture placement and paint colors. Tidying my room would give me a shiny new car feeling on the inside combined with insurmountable amounts of love for the hard work I had done. However, as my high school education was coming to an end I was told I should pursue business or something along those lines because it was a safer path. As you can see, my path was clear to me but I didn’t listen to my inner guide back then.

As I gained more wisdom in my later twenties, by removing physical clutter, I gained the insight as to what I wanted my life to look like. I struggled in college and couldn’t commit to a path towards earning my degree. The harder I tried the harder it became to complete school assignments and go to class. I decided something was trying to get my attention and put that goal on hold. When I did, I realized the goal to graduate college was never mine in the first place. It became clear that I was meant to start my own path and create a business that focused on helping people. I attribute the cultivation of this clarity to the removal of the things in my life that didn’t serve a purpose. In addition to college, I also discarded a car payment I didn’t want and a job I felt no longer fit with me. It may seem a bit reckless or irresponsible but I was desperate to feel an internal sense of peace and find my inner compass. 

It’s rather funny that by becoming a college drop-out I made room for the life I wanted to manifest. My tidying business literally took off over night after I took the leap of faith to find what had been trying to find me all along. I liken it to a garden or a piece of earth that is covered in weeds and dirt with no defined boundaries or attractiveness. Once the unwanted organic material is removed, the vision for the space becomes clear and it even beckons one to then create something based on one’s inner desire. This is why tidying and caring for your home can be so powerful. By removing physical clutter, or what I like to call external noise, you can start to hear the voice of your inner guide as well.

By no means am I suggesting that anyone drop out of college or quit anything that you are currently doing. For me, this was what I needed to make my heart happy. To this day that inner guide speaks very loudly and very clearly because I’ve practiced listening and trusting its wisdom. I urge my clients to see their home and life this way and once they’ve begun to tidy, their lives take off like a rocket ship into places they never dreamed were possible. One client found her dream home soon after we tidied together, another lost a lot of weight and made adjustments to her home so that she could have a roommate and earn extra income, and several clients have reported just feeling good and are full of more energy and mental clarity in their living space after our tidying sessions.

Reflecting on all the work I’ve done with myself and my clients I’ve realized there’s nothing outside of me that can give me what I truly need on the inside. Adding too many material items to my living space, which includes when the fridge is too full or my car needs a good cleanup, actually makes me feel overwhelmed and anxious and most of my clients report feeling the same way. There’s something to be said for packing light and I urge you to try it for yourself. 

Thanks for reading and to read the entire blog post by Dr. Coché you can go here.

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A New Year and A New You!

12/31/2019

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I’ve worked with several clients this year and they’ve all said how grateful they are for the new found energy they’re experiencing as a result of our time tidying together. This is a great sign that speaks to how sensitive we are to the things we keep around us. One woman in her 70’s said she’s actually feeling a new sense of inspiration and is enjoying having guests stay at her home for long visits and is proud to show off her living space. She has the energy to entertain and when a guest needs something she knows exactly where to tell them to find it. Can you imagine that? Having energy to entertain guests and knowing exactly where all of your belongings are? 

For me, as a KonMari consultant, this is the goal I have for all of my clients. No, not for your home to be perfectly tidy all the time, and No, not for you to live a minimalist lifestyle either, but for you to have more energy and inspiration to live life!! One of my clients is a school teacher and she avoided being in her office because of all the clutter. Just recently she reported that she now enjoys being in her office and working there. Every single visit since we finished the clothing category she thanks me for my help because she is astonished at how much energy she’s feeling after our sessions. That's it! That’s what the life-changing magic is all about. It’s about finding yourself, the beautiful, bright and shiny you that’s been buried underneath all of that clutter for so long. 

Looking back on 2019 it’s surprising that I survived. We went through an entire home remodel and let’s just say I have to start all over with finding places to store my things. For a person that thrives in a tidy living space and having everything still in boxes, it’s been quite difficult to say the least. My hubby and I needed a break from the house project so we went to see "Knives Out" at the movies the other night. If you haven’t seen it, the main character Marta is not favored by all the other characters in the story but still manages to find goodness in her heart and always does the right thing. I’ve chosen to see my situation just as Marta’s. I can only control my reaction to my life and everything in it and it’s a lot more fun to be happy and joyful. My home will be tidy again soon enough and there is no use in being stressed out about it.

Some recommendations for the new year is Karen Kingston’s not-so-new book “Clearing Clutter with Feng Shui” on Audible. I recommend sitting down and taking notes while she, in her British accent, orates this wonderful book about how clutter can truly affect every part of your life for the good and the bad. My second recommendation is to read the magazine "Magnolia” December ‘19 issue, in particular A Note From Jo on Resolve. I had my family read this out loud during Christmas dinner and let’s just say it wasn’t only a tear-jerker but an uplifting life and goal changer.  Joanna, if you ever read this, we are all looking up more often now because of your eloquently written letter. 

Wishing you all a Happy New Year and to 2020 not just being for our hindsight!
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KonMari Your Scarves, Fall Is Upon Us!

9/10/2019

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Those scarf “organizers” that you hang in your closet don’t really help you to be any more organized than if you were to stuff all of your scarves into a box and put them on top of the closet. While they do hang together and they’re off the floor and all in one place they still get lost amongst each other and you aren’t able to see them very well. Scarves folded with the KonMari method you can open a drawer or basket and you will be able to see everything you have and it will be beautifully displayed.
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A KonMari Closet Make-Over

8/6/2019

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C came to a KonMari presentation I gave at a local library and after learning the fundamentals of the KonMari method she decided she needed some help making her home spark more joy. This was her closet after we finished and she was ecstatic with what he had accomplished.
The above pics are the before shots. She’s reported that it feels like a necessity to keep her closet tidy and her urge to shop has dwindled. KonMari-ing your closet can save you money and keep you on track with your new tidying habits!
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Once Upon A Remodel - Making My Home Spark Even More Joy!

5/14/2019

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Hello, Everyone!

Yes, I’ve done it. I’m engaged and we are now embarking upon a home remodel in order to make what was my home now into our home. We took out a home loan to turn this dated mid-mod tri-level into a beautiful bungalow of love. Which means the Brady Bunch kitchen and old double pane windows will be discarded with gratitude. We will also be re-finishing the hardwood floors, turning the attached one car garage into a bedroom, and creating a laundry / mud room all to make these 1400 sq. ft. sparkle and shine the way it deserves. The decision to do this hasn’t been so easy. At first we thought buying a new house was the answer and after looking for several months and almost moving to Castle Rock, CO we decided it would be cheaper and a bit easier to remodel what we already have and what we have is a great location and a lot of room to grow. Please stay tuned as we update this post with a lot of before photos and hopefully by the end of Fall we will have a ton of after photos. The photos below are some of the before shots and I can’t wait to show you our progress!

**See our progress below!
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**Update**

6/18/19 - We’ve been slowly moving forward but today we dug our first hole. We had to prove to the city that the garage is on a 3 ft foundation so that we may turn it into a bedroom. We also got the plans for our kitchen remodel.
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July 2, 2019

we decided to completely vacate and within 24 hours we found an apartment and a moving company.
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July 3, 2019

This is what happened to our house just minutes after we completed our move out.
August 7, 2019

Another update! We’ve made a bit of progress! Do you think we will be ready to move in in a month?
8/14/19

The skylights went in last week and we will be ready for inspections early next week.
10/4/19
Well.....it’s been a while since my last update of the home remodel. A lot has happened and we hope to be moving back into our home in the next week or two. We are in love with all of the changes we’ve made and can’t wait to report another update when everything is finished. Remodeling a home is very challenging and I wouldn’t recommend it if you don’t have a designer on board. My hubby and I thought we could figure it out on our own but we ended up having to re-do a few things (eeek). Thanks for reading and we’d love to hear from you if you’re a diy-er and if you’ve had any fumbles along the way.
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Doing It KonMari Style: Discarding Social Media

4/24/2019

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Today.

Today marks the day that I have deleted Instagram, Twitter, Facebook and Pinterest. Yes, it may seem dramatic but as a business owner you get sucked into thinking this is something you must do to stay relevant and to be on top of all the goings on in the world. It doesn’t spark joy for me to try to keep up with everyone else and to figure out how to attract more likes and followers all in an attempt to bring in more clients. It makes me feel like I’m missing something and honestly I spend too much time on my phone.

So I’m spring cleaning my priorities! I just want to be me so I will only be blogging from now on. Writing sparks joy and I can connect with my audience more authentically this way. I also want to be more present with my family and devote more time to my business with the goal of truly helping those that need me the most! Thank you for supporting me and I appreciate all of you that have taken the time to read this, your content is just as important and special but I have to do this in order to make a major change in my life.

​Social Media, I am thanking you and discarding what no longer sparks joy and to any of you that feel the same I urge you to discard it with gratitude as well. Please stay in touch and if my posts no longer spark joy for you by all means please don’t feel obligated to stay, one of the major rules in KonMari is to keep nothing out of obligation!  --xo   kate

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The KonMari Method: Tidying Could Save Your Life!

4/18/2019

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Just like Marie Kondo, I realized the magic of tidying up when I was very young. You see, I was an only child, and I was also the first grandchild. This meant I was given every toy and trinket under the sun, and having to manage all of those things at such a young age was quite overwhelming. I bet you can easily imagine how messy my room was if I told you there was barely room to walk on the floor because it was covered in toys and books.

On Saturdays my mom and I would sit in my room and tidy up. We’d pull everything out and categorize each item. We’d decide if I still wanted to play with each toy and read each book, and if their condition was worthy of keeping. The memory that sticks out the most during this time is how loving and nurturing my mother was when we tidied my room, it made the task fun and easy. After pulling everything out and then cleaning the space by dusting and vacuuming, we’d then put all like-items back on shelves and in drawers. I remember the feeling of pure joy take over my body when I looked at my newly tidied room, it always felt like a brand new space. This was the feeling I wanted to feel forever. 

After a while when I’d play with things and not put them back, that joyful feeling would turn into overwhelm. And when I hit adolescence and high school, I transformed into a major mess-maker. However, when I moved out of my parents’ house into my own apartment and was in college, I realized how important it was to be tidy to be able to pay bills, get to work on time, maintain a budget, study, and have friendships. I saw a direct correlation between success in those activities and my tidiness. 

It was during this time in my early 20’s that I also realized I needed to find my purpose and find out what life was truly about. Something you should know about me is that at a very young age I had a constant deep yearning inside of me. At the time I couldn’t put my finger on what the yearning was for and somehow tidying my things always made me feel closer to a state of contentment. But when I started college, the yearning grew bigger, and though the tidying still helped, I knew I needed something more.

In 2004, after dropping out of college and a serious broken heart, I was in my Denver apartment sitting on my couch in a complete state of shock and bewilderment. I had previously sold my car and quit my job, I also sold my paintings and did odd jobs around town to pay the bills, all in an attempt to find the thing that sparked joy for me, but contentment still eluded me. I was confused with life. Everywhere I turned, the yearning feeling inside grew bigger and bigger. College didn’t quell this yearning, nor did shopping, friends, work, or spending time with family. Nothing made me feel settled or at ease, and the more I tried to fix things and quiet this yearning the louder its voice became.

In that moment in 2004 sitting on my couch, I literally shouted out loud, “I need a teacher. I need to find someone who knows what is going on down here.”

All of a sudden something inside told me to call a friend who had been helping me Feng Shui my apartment in recent months. She answered the phone, and I said, “Hey, Lon, what are you up to today?” She said she was on her way to listen to her spiritual teacher talk, and he was scheduled to speak in about an hour. Coincidentally I lived about fifteen minutes from the location, so I immediately got in my car and drove to meet my friend. In the ballroom of a modest hotel, Sri Gary Olsen spoke. He said, “No matter where you’ve been, who you are right now, where you’re headed, what your nationality is, who you choose to love, whether you feel lost or found, none of these things will keep God from loving you.” After that, the purpose and meaning of life finally began to come clear and the reasons for that yearning feeling that spanned most of my life, I then saw as a divine gift.

A year after that meeting, I started my tidying business. I decided that I was really good at organizing and even though it meant that I was not following a mainstream lifestyle, being self-employed sparked a lot of joy for me. I taught myself how to create a website, how to market and advertise, and how to be professional and equally be a friend to the people I worked with. I made my own schedule, and at times I allowed myself rest when I needed it and then could work 11 days straight when my clients needed me. Owning my own business proved to be one of the most rewarding experiences in my life. 
 
Ok. Now lets fast forward ten years later to Christmas 2014 when my mother gave me a copy of Marie Kondo’s bestseller, The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up. After reading it, I saw how my tidying business and my spiritual beliefs perfectly aligned. I could no longer tidy for people but rather my purpose was to teach them how to tidy for themselves and I wanted to help others find their purpose similar to the way I had found mine. I took a really huge risk quitting my job and selling my car and when I did, what sparked the most joy for me landed lovingly in my lap and it’s because I made room for it to find me.

To this day, I still love to tidy when things get a bit chaotic in my life, and now that I’m a mother I constantly remember what all of my teachers have taught me: My spiritual teacher reminds me in every moment that God is LOVE, and this love resides in everything and is everywhere. I get to choose in every moment where I place my attention and I get to determine my attitude. The KonMari Method has taught me when I express gratitude for everyone and everything in my world, there will then be an abundance of all the things I need and they will show up when I need them. My mother, on a daily basis reminds me why doing anything with a genuine smile will make any task fun and easy.

Please know that showing others how to tidy is my passion. In the KonMari Method we teach that everything must serve its purpose and as a Certified KonMari Consultant I’m here to help you find your joy and discover your purpose through the tidying of your home.

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The Truth Behind KonMari and Tidying Your Books!

4/11/2019

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Marie Kondo received a lot of flack when she suggested that you "get rid of your books" (and she never actually said it quite like that) but this is what it looks like when you apply the KonMari Method to your books.

For some of us, we buy a book, read it, and then keep it on our book shelves (or nightstands, under our beds, in our basements, in the kitchen, in our cars...) However, books are meant to be read, not stored as relics or dust collectors. ​

​As a Certified KonMari Consultant, I’m here to assure you that tidying your books is painless and very effective, but for those of you with a sensitivity to tidying books, you may not want to read any further for there are some shocking images following this message. :)
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Step One: Gather all books from where they are stored and place them in one spot.
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Step Two: Assess each title by asking yourself, if it’s something you haven’t read, will you read it, and if it’s something you have read, will you read it again. 
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Step Three: Once you have touched every book and magazine you own, lovingly place each one back on the shelf standing upright.
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Finally, decide where to responsibly re-home the books you no longer wish to keep.

That’s it!

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***No books were harmed before, during, or after this tidying lesson!**
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Call Kate Tidy’s First Newsletter

3/10/2019

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